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🇲🇽💀 Día de los Muertos:
Mexico City + Oaxaca 2028

A week of marigolds, candlelit cemeteries, parades and mezcal: Mexico City for the big parade, then Oaxaca for the real thing.
Oct 27 – Nov 3, 2028
Mexico City → Oaxaca

🇲🇽 Mexico City  ·  Oct 27–30 (3 nights)

DateWhatDetailsCostStatus
Fri Oct 27
✈️ Land in Mexico City (MEX)
  • Check in around Roma Norte / Condesa
  • Tacos al pastor + a mezcal bar to start
TBD💡 Proposed
Sat Oct 28
💀 Gran Desfile de Día de Muertos
  • The big parade down Reforma to the Zócalo: giant skeletons, Catrinas, floats
  • Usually a Saturday in late Oct / early Nov. Verify the 2028 date
  • Then the giant ofrenda (altar) in the Zócalo
TBD💡 Proposed
Sun Oct 29
Coyoacán + Xochimilco
  • Altars and sugar skulls around Coyoacán's plazas and Frida Kahlo's neighborhood
  • Evening Day-of-the-Dead boat show on Xochimilco's canals (seasonal, verify)
TBD💡 Proposed
Mon Oct 30
✈️ Mexico City → Oaxaca
  • ~1 hr flight (or ~6.5 hr ADO bus)
TBD💡 Proposed

🇲🇽 Oaxaca  ·  Oct 30 – Nov 3 (4 nights)

DateWhatDetailsCostStatus
Mon Oct 30
Oaxaca arrival
  • Walk the Centro and Santo Domingo
  • Dinner + mezcal on a rooftop
TBD💡 Proposed
Tue Oct 31
🌼 Markets + the first night of vigils
  • Mercado 20 de Noviembre + Benito Juárez: marigolds, pan de muerto, sugar skulls, chocolate
  • Night: candlelit cemetery vigil at Santa Cruz Xoxocotlán with a local guide
TBD💡 Proposed
Wed Nov 1
💀 Día de los Muertos (Todos Santos)
  • Day trip: Hierve el Agua, Mitla, and a mezcal palenque in Santiago Matatlán
  • Night: a comparsa (costumed street procession) in a nearby village like San Agustín Etla (verify dates)
TBD💡 Proposed
Thu Nov 2
💀 Día de los Fieles Difuntos
  • Morning at Monte Albán
  • Afternoon at the Panteón General as families decorate graves
  • Farewell dinner
TBD💡 Proposed
Fri Nov 3
✈️ Fly home from Oaxaca (OAX)
  • Usually connects through Mexico City
TBD💡 Proposed

Getting there  ·  Fri Oct 27

DateFlight / TrainRouteTraveler(s)Status
Fri Oct 27
✈️ Flight to Mexico City
Home → Mexico City (MEX)Courtney
❓ others TBD
💡 Proposed

Within Mexico

DateFlight / TrainRouteTraveler(s)Status
Mon Oct 30
✈️ Flight (or ADO bus)
~1 hr flight · ~6.5 hr bus
Mexico City → Oaxaca (OAX)Courtney
❓ others TBD
💡 Proposed
Wed Nov 1
🚗 Driver / tour
Hierve el Agua + Mitla + mezcal day trip
Book with a local guide
Oaxaca → Valley → OaxacaCourtney
❓ others TBD
💡 Proposed

Getting home  ·  Fri Nov 3

DateFlight / TrainRouteTraveler(s)Status
Fri Nov 3
✈️ Flight home
usually via Mexico City
Oaxaca (OAX) → HomeCourtney
❓ others TBD
💡 Proposed

🇲🇽 Mexico City

Oct 27–30  ·  3 nights

The spectacle: the big parade, a giant Zócalo altar, Catrinas everywhere.

  • Gran Desfile (verify date)
  • Coyoacán altars + Xochimilco
Where to stay & more info →

🏨 Where to stay

  • TBD: Roma Norte or Condesa (walkable, great food)

🍽️ Eat & drink

  • Contramar (seafood lunch)
  • Tacos al pastor in Roma
  • Pujol (book well ahead)

ℹ️ Good to know

  • Book the parade day early. Crowds are huge

🌼 Oaxaca

Oct 30 – Nov 3  ·  4 nights

The heart of it: candlelit cemeteries, comparsas and family altars.

  • Xoxocotlán cemetery vigil (Oct 31)
  • Village comparsas
Where to stay & more info →

🏨 Where to stay

  • TBD: Centro or Jalatlaco. Book 6+ months ahead; this is Oaxaca's busiest week

🍽️ Eat & drink

  • Mole + tlayudas
  • Mercado 20 de Noviembre's grilled-meat hall
  • Mezcal bars around Santo Domingo

ℹ️ Good to know

  • Cemeteries are family spaces. Go with a local guide, ask before photographing, bring marigolds or a candle

⛰️ Oaxaca Valley

Wed Nov 1  ·  day trip

Petrified waterfalls, ruins and mezcal country.

  • Hierve el Agua
  • Mitla + a mezcal palenque
Where to stay & more info →

🥾 Things to do

  • Hierve el Agua's mineral pools
  • Mitla ruins
  • Mezcal tasting in Santiago Matatlán
  • Monte Albán (Nov 2, closer to the city)

ℹ️ Good to know

  • Hire a driver for the day

🗺️ The Route on a Map

Open in Google Maps →
General reminders:

Booking Checklist

✓ItemDate
🏨 Oaxaca hotel · 4 nights
Book 6+ months ahead. Peak week
Oct 30 – Nov 3
✈️ Flight to Mexico City
Fri Oct 27
🏨 Mexico City hotel · 3 nights
Roma Norte / Condesa
Oct 27 – Oct 30
📅 Verify the 2028 parade date
Sat Oct 28?
✈️ Mexico City → Oaxaca flight (or ADO bus)
Mon Oct 30
🕯️ Local guide for the Xoxocotlán cemetery vigil
Tue Oct 31
🚗 Driver for Hierve el Agua + Mitla + mezcal
Wed Nov 1
✈️ Flight home from Oaxaca
Fri Nov 3
💀 Día de los Muertos 2028Wed Nov 1 – Thu Nov 2
📅 For reference: 2027Mon Nov 1 – Tue Nov 2

About the Holiday

💀 What it is
Families welcome back the spirits of loved ones with altars (ofrendas), marigolds, candles, photos and favorite foods. Nov 1 honors children, Nov 2 adults.
🌼 Oaxaca
The most traditional: all-night cemetery vigils, village comparsas (costumed processions), sand tapestries and huge markets.
🎭 Mexico City
The spectacle: the Gran Desfile parade, a giant altar in the Zócalo, and Catrina face paint everywhere.
🙏 Etiquette
Cemeteries are family spaces. Go with a guide, ask before photos, keep it quiet, and bring a candle or marigolds as an offering.

💰 Cost Summary

CategoryDetailsEst. Cost
✈️ Flights
Home → Mexico City · Mexico City → Oaxaca · Oaxaca → homeTBD (dollars + points)
🏨 Stays
Mexico City 3 nights · Oaxaca 4 nights (peak pricing)TBD (dollars + points)
🕯️ Guides + drivers
Cemetery vigil guide · valley day tripTBD (dollars + points)
🍽️ Food + mezcal
TBD (dollars + points)
Total
TBD
Show Mexican pesos (MXN) with USD alongside.
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